I first met her on the ImagéCastle MUSH in 1992. She gave me a great compliment once: she said that she had learned that I was a man playing a female character, and then had forgotten it during roleplay.
We met in Oklahoma in 1993, on my drive from Texas to Pittsburgh. We met again once or twice in the San Francisco Bay Area in the summer of 1994. We met once in Pittsburgh, but I can't remember the date. And we met by sheer chance at WorldCon in Baltimore in 1997.
It's neat to see our paths crossing yet again.